Men, a diffcult topic, I think not. We women can read men like a book. They are forever complaining about women. “She is too big or too skinny. She is too clingy or she complains too much.”

The truth is that some of these men should not complain, because the truth is they do not deserve a woman anyway. They should fall on their knees and thank the women in their lives for putting up with them.

Men fall under a practical group of categories, and, if you are with one that fits the description, leave now, while you are still sane.

The boy who thinks he is always right.

Every girl loves an intelligent, confident boy; but, not to the point where their heads get so big, that they think that they are always right and that anyone who challenges their opinion is “stupid.” He will always make you feel inferior to him and, although it is always nice to have some support, he will push you to succeed to the point that you just give up.

Whenever you go against his judgment he will correct you (even if it is an opinion and there is no correction) and he will force his opinions as law. The worst part about it is that when you ask him for his help, he will be to busy to help, or, your problem will be to minor for him.

The Player.

No matter what the occasion, he always has a new girl on his arm. He changes women like he changes underwear. Do not think that he will change his ways for you. He will lure you in with his words; he will tell you how beautiful you are, and that all those other girls do not mean a thing to him.

Then, once you get with him, you will wish you never met him. If you do not give him what he wants, rumors will begin to circulate and if you do give him what he wants you will be branded a slut.

The “momma’s boy.”

It is a great thing when a boy and his mother have a close relationship; but, if this relationship will interfere with your own relationship, there is indeed a problem.

You will always have to deal with the “my momma said” and “but my momma.” When you go out, you will most likely have to date mom too, and when she does not tag along she will lecture you about bringing her little boy home safe.

If you are lucky, his mother will like you, but if he is like most “momma’s boys,” she will not want any girl to get close to her son. So, even if he does like you, he would not want to make his mother upset by dating you any further.

The boy who pays too much attention to his friends.

You probably got together because of his friends. Whenever you call or talk to him, he will always be busy. No matter how hard you try, you will not fit in with him and his friends. And, if you do, it will not be a real relationship.

You expect your boyfriend to be there for you, willing to listen to your problems, but if he is too concerned with the well being of his “homeboys,” how will he have the time or desire to care and notice you?

The perfectionist.

This boy seems perfect in every way, shape and form; but, there is a hidden secret. It may not be evident but if the relationship seems too good to be true, then it most likely is.

This type of boy may have different secrets; maybe he is addicted to porn, maybe he cheats on tests or worse, maybe he is gay.

The reality of is that no one is perfect and any boy that puts on the visage of perfection shows reason for questionable worry.

In essence, men really are not difficult beings; once you understand them and how they function, then you know how to choose your match.

Avoid the problematic men at all cost. Be happy, and have a decent man.