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Guest writer Angel Camacho wonders if he'll ever find that perfect girl. -
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Women, it’s a very difficult subject. When it all boils down to the reality of life, we need them as much as they need us

(most of us know it but really wont admit it). Once you are stuck with one you better make the best of it. At times

relationships can take weeks, months, or if you get married, years of your life. So what is the point? Is it easier than

rocket science? No. Rather more complex. If you have a bad chick then you are really in for the ride of your life.

There are a couple of hints that most girls ?t into certain categories, and these abstain from, heck run away from them

if you have to.

The girl that gives too much attention to the opinions of her friends and family.

It is always ok for girls to ask for opinions about what they should do. But there are just some girls who straight out

are puppets and live the lives that their friends and family lay out for them. It is unheard of and dumb to allow such a

thing. She cannot make decisions for herself so she relies on others to do them fro her. Poor soul to the man that her family dislikes, this is as

close that you will get to a living hell. Every single decision and aspect of your life will be criticized not just by one person, but by the boatloads.

All it takes is for one person to shift the momentum, and you will lose the girl completely. But forget it, never mind that you lost her.

The insecure girl.

Regardless how pretty this girl may be, if she is insecure, your in for a trip. Just let one girl talk to you in the way that displeases her and boy

your in for a good one. You will always be guilty even when your not. So just imagine if you ?nd yourself in a situation in which nothing looks

in your favor. Word to the wise, if she didn’t listen when you said that the girl was just asking for the time, just imagine you were seen talking

to an ex girlfriend. She is insecure. Nothing will make her feel secure, ever. I know what your thinking, and don’t try it. Don’t try to make her

feel too secure because it will only make her uncomfortable with the situation and make her think that you are cheating or did something wrong

so you have to do all that to ?x things. Why? Because she is insecure, nothing will ever be enough to please this type of women. Always you

will ?nd yourself in the situation to make her feel wanted and on the alert to defend yourself against everything and anything. Honestly that is

not the way to live.

The argumentative girl.

Life is full of problems. On a daily basis you will bump into people that will give you a hard time, so why do you feel the need to get stuck with

a girl that argues about everything. This type of women can be too possessive. They are suppose to back you up and be the wind beneath your

wings, not rip your wings off and shove them up your (well you get the point). Most of the time these are the women that separate into two

extremes, the ones that are independent or the ones that have nothing else better to do than to criticize your every move. On one hand you have

the woman that is successful (in her own mind) and she will always challenge your point. On the other you have the woman that sits at home all

day and picks you apart for the few hours leading up to bed. Do you really want that? They are both the same, arguing is what they do. They act

like they do not care all the time. Of course they care and you know it, but they will go at all cost to prove to you that they do not care. This can

lead to the “off and on” relationships. Trust me, if you just so happen sneeze the wrong way, you will ?nd yourself in the doghouse. So for your

own sake do not even think about raising your voice at her because you are done and through.

The girl that pretends as the victim.

Now this type of women are a weird science per say. It can be completely her fault and you will feel guilty. They are smart and witty. They will

turn the tables on you quicker than you can stutter your next word. So you will ?nd yourself trying to ?x a situation that you did not even cause.

To everyone you are the abuser and she is the holy one. She will get away with murder and she knows it, most probably you are not the ?rst.

There is no winning with this girl, remember she is always the victim. For instance, if she cheats on you, is your fault because you did not ?ll

the requirements that she needed. So, you ?nd yourself trying to ?x yourself when in the ?rst place you might not have any faults, then comes

the second-guessing and all the drama. It is pointless. Just think if you actually did something in the past, she will always bring it back in your

face, and when she does it does not matter how insigni?cant it was.

Finally, the girl that took you minutes to get with.

How is she going to be faithful to you if it only took you minutes to hit a homerun (and we are not talking baseball)? If ?ve minutes is what it

took you, then trust me, there are guys better than you out there, just imagine. What do you have to offer? These girls will give you a good time,

but do not think of a relationship. Do not try to prolong this relationship. She is only good for a short time because that is what she is good at.

Do not take an animal out of its habitat. That is easy science. Take the hint if it’s not what you are looking for then keep moving right along,

because that is all she wants (your probably your too drunk to remember).

As can be shown, whatever route you choose, avoid these. Women take a lot of time and are hard to understand. So why get stuck with

one that will only make your time together worse. They are supposed to be an aide for us, in every aspect. It can be funny, overrated, or stereotypical,

but if you see one of these girls, keep walking you did not miss much. Heck, give them the old punch line that you just had a serious

relationship and you are trying to move on. That should get them to leave.

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