Condom availability seems to conjure up controversy in the
classroom and in the household, thus questioning if there should be an age
restriction of when it seems appropriate to buy condoms.
Currently,
this idea of an age restriction is just a thought that has been toyed with- but
still a true possibility. Both sides have their reasons; from encouraging
adolescents to engage in sexual intercourse (a con), to protecting teens from
life changing events such as pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases (a
pro). Adults have their own views, but does this generation think that the pros
outweigh the cons?
“I
don’t think that fourteen year olds should be allowed to be condoms, they
shouldn’t even be thinking about sex! If you’re sixteen or seventeen, I would
understand but I stand firmly by my views: kids shouldn’t be having sex,” said
Kelli Barrios, a mother and elementary school teacher at Pines Elementary.
After
to speaking to various teenagers, and very few adults, I’ve come to a consensus:
condoms should be available for all ages.
“If
they’re going to buy them they intend on using them, and it is better to be
safe rather than sorry,” said Gabriela Lay, a junior who attends Doral Academy.
Although
conservatives may disagree, fact of the matter is that teenagers are having
sex. By allowing a fifteen year old to buy condoms guarantees some security and
safety.
“Without
being able to buy condoms, diseases could spread like wild fire and I'm sure
pregnancy rates would sky rocket. One piece of rubber can make a huge
difference, but some people are just too narrow minded to see that,” said
Emilie Perez, a sophomore at American Senior High School.
Perez
shares the opinion of many adolescents, but what many don’t realize is that the
problem is bigger than just that “piece of rubber.”
The
real ‘elephant in the room’ is sex. In the New Digital Age, sex has slipped
into our daily lives making it more acceptable, yet it is still considered
“taboo.”
“I
think sex is just a fact of life. The difference between then and now is social
media which is able to capture and discover every moment of our lives,” said
Amanda Hernandez, a junior at Hialeah Gardens Senior High School.
Since
there is more documentation of just about everyone’s daily life, then it could
be that intercourse in this particular age range could be blown out of
proportion. Maybe sex seems like a big deal because intercourse before marriage
has become more acceptable, that adolescents have been maturing at a different
rate and they are more knowledgeable than the previous generations when it
comes to sex education.
“I know
they say that nowadays its "rare" to find a virgin but people are
just making a big deal out of nothing serious. Statistically, there are more
teen virgins than adults. People have sex and it shouldn't matter what age you
are as long as you are mature about it and are willing to deal with the
possible consequences,” said Perez.
“Consequences,”
meaning whatever the stork drops off at your doorstep. Biologically, kids
aren’t fully mature until their early twenties, but in general, adolescents of
this generation have matured at a rapid rate. Buying condoms at a Seven Eleven
is no longer that awkward and does not deter teens from making such a purchase.
Girls are no longer as afraid to ask for birth control, or fear the
consequences. As a matter of fact, teens understand that sex is just another
part of life and would rather take the measures to protect themselves than live
with the consequences.
“The
way I think about it, two minutes of awkwardness [asking for a condom] beats a
lifetime of raising an accidental child,” said Jonathan Diaz, a junior at Miami
Lakes Educational Center.
Yet, by
saying that as long as one is “mature” and condoms and birth control are
available to adolescents, some adults believe that it is encouraging sex.
“I
think with all the things people are saying it gets teens even more interested
and curious. Kids always want to try new things, and it is hard to stop them.
By blowing teen sex out of proportion adults almost promote it,” said Alexandra
Rosemberg, an 8th grader at George Washington Carver Middle School.
Rosemberg
proves a good point, kids will always be curious. It is almost like a trend, if
someone says that a video game is cool and continues to talk about it; gamers
will go out and buy it making it popular and something common. Why would sex be
any different?
“Sex is
never going to be something we can control. I think people just to need to have
more awareness and education, not sensationalizing stories. If we can make
people more aware then we've accomplished what should be our goal,” said
Hernandez, ”I do not endorse having sex early but if it does happen, you should
be able to protect yourself no matter what age you are.”
In
other words, even gamers protect and take careful care of their games. Wrapping
it up shouldn’t be an option, but mandatory. Fortunately, laws haven’t limited
that option. What should be limited is all this sex talk because it might even
be doing more harm than good.